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Many
women may question their sexuality (also referred to as sexual preference
or sexual orientation) during their time as students.
The "freedoms" women have as students -
from parental gaze, old peers, social/religious constraints - along
with new-found knowledge and a tolerant more enlightened climate
can be reasons for women to ask questions around their own sexuality.
Many theories abound as to the actual cause of
an individual's sexuality - from genetics, developmental psychology
to neurology - but the only thing certain is that there is no conclusive
evidence for any single cause.
What is my sexuality? Does it matter?
There are no concrete rules for defining sexuality. Some women are
certain of their sexuality/preference/orientation from a very young
age, whereas for others it is not as defined or clear. Many do not
feel that definition or classification is important.
Accepting your sexuality - whether it's heterosexual,
lesbian or bisexual - may be easier in an environment with educated
and open-minded individuals. But this may not always be the case
since homophobia and bigotry still abound in higher education.
"Coming Out"
Depending on your circumstances, the process of coming out - or
revealing your sexuality - may be daunting. It is a very personal
choice and the time and situation must be right for you to take
this step.
Don't make any assumptions about how others may
behave or react. Your perceptions of people may be completely wrong.
Seek out sympathetic and supportive people first and follow your
own instincts. It's up to you who you tell and who you don't.
Many institutions have counselling services that
may offer help. In addition, student unions have lesbian and gay
societies run by and for lesbian, gay and bisexual students (many
of them have literature/information on coming out).
USEFUL LINKS
Stonewall
A campaigning organisation working for lesbian and gay equality.
Outrage!
A campaigning group involved in many direct actions against homophobic
individuals and institutions.
Lesbian and Gay Switchboards
These can give information on health, the law and national and local
contacts.
London
- Lesbian and Gay Switchboard
Tel: 020 7837 7324
Manchester
- Lesbian and Gay Foundation
Tel: 0161 274 3999
Bradford
- Lesbian and Gay Switchboard
Tel: 0845 345 2443
South
Essex - Lesbian and Gay Switchboard
Tel: 01702 344 355
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