Many women may question their sexuality (also referred to as sexual preference or sexual orientation) during their time as students.

The "freedoms" women have as students - from parental gaze, old peers, social/religious constraints - along with new-found knowledge and a tolerant more enlightened climate can be reasons for women to ask questions around their own sexuality.

Many theories abound as to the actual cause of an individual's sexuality - from genetics, developmental psychology to neurology - but the only thing certain is that there is no conclusive evidence for any single cause.

What is my sexuality? Does it matter?
There are no concrete rules for defining sexuality. Some women are certain of their sexuality/preference/orientation from a very young age, whereas for others it is not as defined or clear. Many do not feel that definition or classification is important.

Accepting your sexuality - whether it's heterosexual, lesbian or bisexual - may be easier in an environment with educated and open-minded individuals. But this may not always be the case since homophobia and bigotry still abound in higher education.

"Coming Out"
Depending on your circumstances, the process of coming out - or revealing your sexuality - may be daunting. It is a very personal choice and the time and situation must be right for you to take this step.

Don't make any assumptions about how others may behave or react. Your perceptions of people may be completely wrong. Seek out sympathetic and supportive people first and follow your own instincts. It's up to you who you tell and who you don't.

Many institutions have counselling services that may offer help. In addition, student unions have lesbian and gay societies run by and for lesbian, gay and bisexual students (many of them have literature/information on coming out).

USEFUL LINKS

Stonewall
A campaigning organisation working for lesbian and gay equality.

Outrage!
A campaigning group involved in many direct actions against homophobic individuals and institutions.

Lesbian and Gay Switchboards
These can give information on health, the law and national and local contacts.

London - Lesbian and Gay Switchboard
Tel: 020 7837 7324

Manchester - Lesbian and Gay Foundation
Tel: 0161 274 3999

Bradford - Lesbian and Gay Switchboard
Tel: 0845 345 2443

South Essex - Lesbian and Gay Switchboard
Tel: 01702 344 355


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